Reconnect With Your Child | Parenting Classes and Sessions

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Reconnecting With Your Child

Let's Rebuild Your Bond with Your Child, one Block at a Time

MORE THAN A CHECKBOX FOR COURT, OUR COURSES AND CONSULTS HELP YOU TRULY LEARN HOW TO REBUILD MEANINGFUL CONNECTIONS WITH YOUR CHILD

When the connection with your child feels fractured, it's not just your heart that aches—your entire world feels off balance. Our child-centered, high-conflict parenting class and private consults are designed to help you rebuild that bond, one meaningful interaction at a time. Think of it as laying down the foundational blocks for a stronger, more resilient relationship.

Our 8-hour personalized course and private consults are ideal for:

Parents navigating high-conflict custody situations
Those experiencing rejection or estrangement from their child
Individuals seeking court-approved parenting education
Caregivers eager to deepen their understanding of child-parent dynamics

And with benefits include:

Personalized, one-on-one instruction tailored to your family's unique circumstances
Flexible pacing to fit your schedule
Practical tools and techniques to foster reconnection
A certificate of completion recognized by courts

ENROLL IN THE COURSE

BOOK INTRODUCTION CALL

COURSE MODULE 01

Child-centered parenting, specifically created for estranged parents

COURSE MODULE 02

Why children avoid some parents and ways to reach your kiddos.

COURSE MODULE 03

Practice how to help your child feel safe, heard, and loved.

COURSE MODULE 04

Advanced parenting techniques you can apply and use today.

THE BUILDING BLOCKS FOR A STRONGER RELATIONSHIP

Key benefits of our high-conflict parenting course include:

A CHILD-CENTERED APPROACH

We prioritize the child's perspective, helping you understand their feelings and needs. This focus fosters a safe and supportive environment where your child feels heard and valued, laying the groundwork for a renewed and healthy relationship.

PERSONALIZED GUIDANCE

Unlike generic courses, our program offers bespoke one-on-one sessions that address your specific challenges. This individualized approach ensures that the strategies you learn are directly applicable to your situation, making each session a valuable building block toward reconnection.

PRACTICAL SKILL DEVELOPMENT

Our curriculum emphasizes actionable techniques, from understanding the reasons behind a child's resistance to practicing empathetic communication. By engaging in role-plays and real-life scenarios, you'll gain confidence in applying these skills, both during the course and beyond.

Take the First Step Toward Reconnection

ENROLL TODAY OR SCHEDULE A DISCOVERY CALL

Rebuilding a relationship with your child doesn't have to be a solitary journey. Our high-conflict parenting class offers the guidance and support you need to navigate this challenging time. Whether you choose to enroll directly or start with a discovery call, we're here to help you lay the first brick toward a stronger bond.

BOOK INTRODUCTION CALL

MEET YOUR COMPASSIONATE EXPERT

Meet Cathy

Cathy Himlin, LMFT, LPCC, brings over 30 years of experience as a Marriage and Family Therapist, Professional Clinical Counselor, and former Court Officer. Specializing in high-conflict family dynamics, Cathy has dedicated her career to helping parents and children rebuild their relationships through child-centered approaches. Her expertise in court-involved therapy and reunification processes makes her uniquely qualified to guide you through the complexities of reconnecting with your child.

Here’s how Himlin Consulting’s unique process, methods, and tools support you through high-conflict custody cases:

Step 01: Getting Started

Book an introductory call to discuss your situation and explore how it's affecting your relationship with your child. We'll review your options — continued consultation or the live 8-hour course — and create a plan to help you rebuild and strengthen your connection.

Step 02: Personal Assessment

If engaging personal consultations, we take the time to discuss your specific situation — including your child's ages, the history of separation, and other important details — to fully tailor the approach to your needs.

Step 03: Learning & Practice

Complete the course with active participation, including role-playing exercises and situation-specific guidance. Expect ongoing feedback, customized assignments, and a personalized action plan to rebuild and strengthen your relationship with your child.

Step 04: On-Going Support & Growth

By working with Himlin’s proven methods through consultations or coursework, you’ll gain clear strategies, personalized scripts, and a deeper understanding of how to prioritize your child. Ongoing support from Cathy ensures you stay on track and adapt as your situation evolves.

Ready to rebuild your relationship with your child? Let's get started.

FREQUENTLY ASKED

As a non-attorney, what do you have to teach me?

This is not legal advice. I offer consultations to attorneys from the perspective of a therapist who has significant experience working with court-involved therapy and has seen the types of questions attorneys are likely to ask. I can help you understand what types of therapy may be appropriate for your clients and what to look out for according to the developmental ages of the children attorneys represent (or their parents). I have also helped develop full presentations in “Supporting Parents & Children in Family Court” for the San Diego Family Law Bar Association (SDFLBA) and can share this material as well.
Can you speak to my firm about the training you've developed for the San Diego Family Law Bar Association?

Yes! Please reach out so we can discuss what information would be most helpful for your firm and the length of presentation you’re looking for.
What types of attorneys do you work with?

I regularly work with attorneys in family law and dependency court, as well as with both parents’ attorneys and the minor’s counsel.
Do you promise any particular outcome for me or a specific case?

Unfortunately, we cannot predict or guarantee whether these skills will positively impact your specific situation; each person and case is unique. However, This course is designed and delivered by an experienced mental health professional specializing in court-involved cases. The goal of this course is to inform you on what to expect in an average courtroom experience and ways to succinctly and directly answer questions that should help avoid a negative outcome.
Who are these courses for?

They are for mental health practitioners who want to stop avoiding cases that may put them at risk for subpoena so they can confidently serve the clients who need their help the most. They're for any mental health practitioners that have received a subpoena and want to be prepared for court, understand what to expect, and handle ethical situations with confidence to protect their license.
Can I learn at my own pace?

Yes! You will be able to login to your account to access all the video content and resources at your convenience. No mess, no stress. And you will have lifetime access to the course content, so that you can refer back to it whenever needed.
What if I want a refund?

If you don't come away with more knowledge and confidence after watching even a handful of our course videos, just send us an email to let us know and we'll be more than happy to issue you a full refund within the first 30 days of enrolling in either course.
The idea of testifying is scary. Can you help me?

Yes! I enjoy the testifying process. It's not so scary once you learn what to expect for the process and feel confident in what you can and cannot say, as well as how to protect your clients on the stand.
What should I buy these courses if there are other resources available?

I have personally been called in to testify now for decades. While there are definitely some basic resources here and there online, there is nothing available out there that has the in-depth coverage that these courses do. If you truly want to feel secure and confident from the moment you receive a subpoena until the time you leave the stand and head home after testifying, there is no substitute for the content we've put together for you in these courses.
Are these courses a substitute for consulting with a malpractice attorney or legal advice?

NO. We are not attorneys. These courses do not replace your need to consult with an attorney. This is peer advice focusing on your exposure to a learning experience to help support you in a future court appearance; it is not legal advice.
What if I have questions before buying?

Please email me at anytime here: cathy@himlinconsulting.com. I look forward to meeting you and answering any questions or concerns you may have before getting started!
Is this program evidence-based?

The class uses elements of and teaching from evidence-based concepts and teachings, such as: EFFT (Emotion-Focused Family Therapy), research provided via link: https://www.mentalhealthfoundations.ca/efft Dr. Dan Siegel: https://drdansiegel.com/biography/ AFCC (Association of Family and Conciliation Courts): https://www.afccnet.org/ These teachings are especially tailored for parents facing rejection from their children.
Since the program is individual, can you offer a 10 to 12-hour class to satisfy my court order instead of 8?

Yes! While the main format of the class can be completed in 8 hours, diving deeper into practice examples and scripts can make the class's benefits even more powerful with extra hours of practice.
What makes your class different than others?

Unlike courses generally created simply to satisfy a court requirement, we offer an environment where parents can truly learn and practice the skills to help you reconnect with your child. This class is a live, interactive, high-conflict parenting class specifically tailored to your child’s developmental age, their needs, and your specific familial situation.
Can I take this class even if I’m not going through a divorce?

Absolutely! Any parent can learn to connect with their child more deeply and improve their communication skills.
Can I get a certificate to give to the court?

Yes, upon completion of the class requirements.
Does this class satisfy my court order?

Suppose I’m not interested in the whole class but have a specific communication issue with my child. Can I still do individual consultations with you to discuss my specific issue rather than take the entire class?
Does this class involve the child at all during the sessions?

No, the child is not involved in the class. Instead, parents can practice what they learn in the class between appointments and use role-play scripts to help with specific issues/conversations they may be expecting to have.
What is the point/purpose of the class?

A major focus of the class is helping parents learn to recognize and express empathy by validating their child’s feelings and ensuring their child feels safe. This can reconnect them emotionally and create safety to repair the relationship.
What is the structure of the class?

The class has instruction, role play, and handouts, among other methods.
Suppose I’m not interested in the whole class but have a specific communication issue with my child. Can I still do individual consultations with you to discuss my specific issue rather than take the entire class?

Absolutely! I have experience working with parents who are dealing with a wide variety of issues.

Your Reconnection
Journey Starts Here

Start by enrolling in the course to begin building the skills and insight needed to reconnect with your child. Or, if you’d like to explore whether this is the right fit, schedule a discovery call with Cathy to talk through your unique situation. No matter where you are in your journey, we’re here to support you in rebuilding a strong, loving relationship with your child—one block at a time.