FOR ATTORNEYS
Emotionally Support Your Clients
Helping Attorneys build stronger child-centered cases - one block at a time
CHILD-CENTERED STRATEGIES, TOOLS, TRAINING AND CONSULTS FOR ATTORNEYS ON EFFECTIVELY QUESTIONNING TREATING THERAPISTS AND ACHIEVING BETTER CLIENT OUTCOMES
At Himlin Consulting, we understand the unique challenges attorneys face in high-conflict family law cases—especially when children are involved. These aren’t just legal matters; they’re deeply human ones. That’s why we bring a child-first, developmentally informed lens to the table. Our consulting services and training help attorneys protect children’s emotional health while navigating the legal process with clarity, strategy, and compassion.
We don’t just hand over information—we offer foundational tools that you can use again and again, case after case.
Our trainings and consults are for attorneys who:
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Represent clients in high-conflict or court-involved custody cases
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Want to work more effectively with mental health professionals
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Are seeking stronger outcomes for children in contentious legal situations
With benefits that include:
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Greater clarity around child psychology and developmental needs
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Ethical, effective collaboration with therapists
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Strategic insights for courtroom preparation and testimony
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A deeper ability to advocate for what’s truly in the best interest of the child
TRAINING 01: CHILD DEVELOPMENT
Learn basic child development and typical patterns in high conflict families.
TRAINING 02: QUESTIONNING THERAPISTS
Learn ways to question treating therapists to help your client's case by getting what you need form them easier.
TRAINING 03: ATTACHMENT PARENTING
Learn ways that your clients can make it easier to resolve parent-child conflict.
TOPIC 04: CHILD-CENTERED RECONNECTION
How to create a team approach that is child centered for your client's case to reduce stress and trauma in their child's life.
Why Child-Centered Strategy Matters—And How Attorneys Benefit from It
STRONGER COLLABORATION WITH MENTAL HEALTH EXPERTS
We help attorneys understand how to work with therapists—not against them. Learn what to expect, how to ask the right questions, and how to use expert input to support your case ethically and effectively.
BETTER OUTCOMES FOR CHILDREN
With our guidance, you’ll be equipped to present a clear picture of the child’s experience and needs. That kind of clarity doesn’t just help in court—it creates better outcomes for the families you serve.
STRATEGY THAT'S BUILT TO LAST
Our child-focused approach offers building-block strategies that can be applied across all your family law cases. It’s not just about winning a case—it’s about protecting children and laying groundwork for long-term well-being.
Better understand what your clients are going through emotionally so you can decrease litigation.
MEET YOUR EXPERT
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Meet Cathy
FOUNDER. EXPERT. ADVOCATE FOR THE CHILD.
With over 30 years of experience as a therapist and court-involved social worker, Cathy Himlin, LMFT, LPCC, brings unmatched insight to high-conflict family law. Her work focuses on bridging the gap between the legal system and child psychology—helping attorneys, therapists, and parents keep children at the center of the process. Cathy’s grounded, compassionate approach makes her a trusted resource for attorneys navigating the toughest custody battles.
Here’s how Himlin Consulting’s unique process, methods, and tools support you through high-conflict custody cases:
Step 01: Initial Consultation
Schedule a consultation call to discuss your firm's needs or a specific high-conflict case. Together, we establish key topics to be covered during the presentation.
Step 01: Initial Consultation
Schedule a consultation call to discuss your firm's needs or a specific high-conflict case. Together, we establish key topics to be covered during the presentation.
Step 02: Customized Presentation
Cathy designs a tailored presentation (30–60+ minutes) with a live Q&A session, along with a detailed PDF handout for ongoing reference and support.
Step 03: On-Going Case Support
Following the presentation, continued support is available to assist with case-specific strategies and ensure the child’s best interests remain the focus.
CATHY HIMLIN SERVING AS YOUR
Subject Matter Expert
Serving as your Subject Matter Expert in high-conflict divorce cases involving children, Cathy is experienced in providing court testimony and insights with one primary focus: ensuring the child’s well-being is always the top priority. In these tense and emotionally charged cases, her approach centers on navigating complex dynamics to maintain clarity and advocate for solutions that support the child's best interests, even when parents are at odds. Her role is to offer expert guidance that helps the court make informed decisions, keeping the child’s needs front and center throughout the process.
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Take the First Step Toward a Child-Centered Practice
The children in your cases deserve better—and so do you. Let’s build stronger, more ethical, more effective legal strategies together. Whether you’re in the middle of a challenging case or want to strengthen your long-term approach, we’re here to support you. Book a consultation or discovery call today and take the first step toward a more impactful practice.